visiting time.. and jadelle's first view of her brother..

After sending out announcement messages.. visitors start arriving.. who came?

jason, priscillia, joanne, mum, dad, francis, cynthia, huaqing, wenqi, lilian, hing, maderick, AK's parents.. nora.. and of course, the most important visitor to us at this point, JADELLE...

asked wenqi & gang to help take pictures and to hide the baby first.. so that i won't be carrying baby when she comes in..

She was so happy to see me.. i asked her to touch my tummy.. ask her where is didi? then i whispered to her that doctor persuaded didi to come out already. and he is ready to meet his big sister.. and that he bought a present for her.. does she want to know where he is? she stared around, sitting next to me.. my girl's eyes were so big..

then AK pushed in the baby with a present inside meant for jadelle.. he told jadelle that she has a present for didi also.. and say that didi has a present for her.. does she want to give didi her present?

she nod her head.. and we told her that didi also has present for her.. does she want to know wat didi give her?

she nod yes.. and took it.. and say thanks to didi.. and i helped her open it up..

she like the goofy baby towel.. and later on, we taught her how to carry didi.. mum helped.. she kissed him! i was soo relieved.. hope this last..

then when Ashton start to wail.. she exclaimed.. don't cry!! we all laughed.. i hug her and praised her..

NEXT Hurdle: her acceptance of me breastfeeding the baby..

I ask her.. jadelle how? didi so small? how are we going to feed him? he need energy to carry milk bottle.. and milk bottle too big now..

i ask her ok to feed milk milk? she say yes.. feed milk! i ask her: but where to get milk from? she looked around for milk powder.. so i said.. remember when u baby, where you drink milk from? so can mummy feed didi nan nan? she nod yes..

Drew the curtains. i latched the baby as he was crying.. and i ask jadelle, is this correct? u tell didi.. he still learning..jadelle nod head yes.. correct.. and asked to carry.. so i tell her still not yet drink finish.. wait a while..

she left me and didi behind, saying good night.. and knowing she will come find me tomorrow.. i miss my princess already..